Spent day with him.
I made coffee and supplied cake. He sorted out my rubbish.
We went to B&Q for a bit of metal for my kitchen work surface.
We planned a training day we are going to run together.
Went for lunch and he grabbed box of chocs for hs wife's birthday.
I caught up with my emails while he had a fag.
He downloaded a picture browser programme for me.
We both had a nice day...
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- Wednesday, Nov. 11, 2009 @ 06:34:38
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pollygarter
- Friday, Nov. 13, 2009 @ 23:21:42
Thanks for hugs. I'm OK and simply getting used to new situation. it has its pros as well as its cons.
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- Saturday, Nov. 14, 2009 @ 08:49:22
Just you take care...
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- Wednesday, Nov. 11, 2009 @ 09:49:31
i don't know what to say either. I see your situation, and see mine drifting that way. I understand totally your love for him, and how you are now friends but not lovers. Is it enough? I have to ask, cos I am not convinced it will be for me.
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pollygarter
- Friday, Nov. 13, 2009 @ 23:26:37
If it gets too frustratingemotionally or sexually it is for me to call a halt.
At the moment I like him being there and he is more relaxed because he feels no guilt now we're just friends.
I am enjoying being single and having a loving friend, although I would happily have only him in my life if he could make more of a commitment - and I don't need him to leave his wife, but give more than he feels able to give in recent times. -
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- Wednesday, Nov. 11, 2009 @ 21:30:33
Sounds in part like contrived simplicity, though nice. I apologize in advance, if I am totally off the wall with this thought.
Work plans are a useful distraction and getting jobs done is practical. I wonder though, if a frisson is building up and if it is, will it spill over?-
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pollygarter
- Friday, Nov. 13, 2009 @ 23:20:24
Interesting question and perceptive as ever! he has chosen to disengage as my lover and be my friend. I see myself as single, but would be happy to have him as my lover should he choose to re-engage - I'm not one who called a halt.
I feel a romantic melancholia at times, but can live without him as my lover despite loving him.
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{{{{{Big Hugs}}}}}