...he's still in my life, but a loving friend rather than a lover...
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- Friday, Oct. 16, 2009 @ 20:00:49
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- Friday, Oct. 16, 2009 @ 20:39:58
I'm OK thank you. Sad, but aware that despite various things the world is still my lobster or whatever...
I am cross at what I see as a terribe waste and have concerns for his future happiness, but we all have to decide stuff for ourselves.
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- Friday, Oct. 16, 2009 @ 20:58:57
I think you are allowed oysters in your world; lobster pots are not quite in the same league.
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- Friday, Oct. 16, 2009 @ 22:46:02
Quite good not to limit one's horizons though...

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- Saturday, Oct. 17, 2009 @ 10:43:26
Seeking out natural oysters that have pearls within is difficult, as you know, the cultured ones have to be carefully graded. As for Lobsters, they are much more prolific, and extremely good when present appropriately, on a plate. So yes, broadening our horizons is a very good idea.
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- Sunday, Oct. 18, 2009 @ 22:37:14
You do have a wonderful way with metaphors and analogies!

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- Sunday, Oct. 18, 2009 @ 21:40:36
It's a tough one to pull off. So much history, so many memories from the time you were so much more than friends. I've certainly not managed it. Good luck x s
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- Sunday, Oct. 18, 2009 @ 22:38:52
You're right. In circumstances though, it mmakes sense which sort of helps, but only time will tell...
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- Tuesday, Oct. 20, 2009 @ 17:33:54
Hard to stay friends with ex-lovers. I have managed with almost all of them, but only the ones I did not care about in the first place. And of course, I had two married lovers. One, I left. The other... left both his wife and me. The latter is the only one I could not be friends with. You are brave.
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- Wednesday, Oct. 21, 2009 @ 00:16:52
Thank you - life is complex...
menhir
How does it feel? Hope you're okay.

(Your one and only comment thus far here, is not exactly awe-inspiring, is it? I'm sure you weren't looking for freebiejeebies...could be wrong I suppose)