Being 'unattached' can be a very hard situation to be in. That said, it can feel extremely lonely in a relationship that isn't working. Sometimes there's a whole lot to be said for this cyber-community of ours.

Really sorry to hear about your purse. Theft has become an everyday way of life sadly; the days of leaving doors and windows unlocked are long gone.

I recall seeing a tourist leave an extremely expensive camera beside his drink in a pub while he went into the loo. He didn't seem at all concerned and as it turned out there were only a few people present and no-one touched it. It's not a chance I'd have taken though.

Awwww sorry to hear about your purse. Having anything taken just invades our own privacy and is just a pain in the butt to sort out.

*hugs*

x

trolly bares her teeth

[er not that i'm any good at biting, but you know, but troll teeth are pretty scary]

did you manage to sort everything with the lost cards?

poor you :-(

trolly x

He probably was Turkish. After being married to a Turk, and seeing first hand the immigrant underground world, I'm allowed to be racist!

Big hugs

xxx

I am behind the times here - I am so sorry you have had this trauma. It is awful to be left alone to 'finish' the day when it has been one of turmoil; the personal distress does hit home.

Your part time relationship is reminiscent of that of service personnel who really are here today and gone tomorrow, irrespective of whether it is with the hubby, the wife, the girlfriend or lover. The other party feel the same as you have felt and continue to feel. I guess the service men and women do too, but turn to, with the stiff upper lip. Not sure I could do that.

Sorry to hear you lost your purse.
I seem to have missed a load of your posts. Some posts show up on my "Home" page, others don't, God only knows.
Re purse - it does happen. It's a nuisance cancelling and replacing stuf but it's not the end of the world.

Ah I see now. Hope its been resolved now. It happened to me when I was in Bridgwater. I contacted the bank immediately. They cancelled my cards and sent out new ones to my address within 7 days. They said if I wanted to withdraw cash in the meantime, just to go in person to the bank in town.

Pretty efficient and helpful I thought.

After stressing my girfriend out that afternoon.. I found my purse later that evening!! *twat*

Sadly I concur with lazybugg on the character of Turkish men. I have known TWO other UK women, who left abusive relationships with men.

But its not just Turks, its the way all immigrant communities tend to clique and ghettoise. This then becomes easy for criminal gangs to infiltrate the scene.

The Mafia did it in Italian America. Its nothing new. And the race card shouldnt be played everytime someone flags up these issues. Because I trust that any sane person abhors xenophobia and racism

Ironically the highest degree of inter-ethnic prejudice is most deeply held among the new immigrant communities themselves.

Remember last year, the educated UK Muslim girl of Pakistani origin. She wanted to marry a man of Afghan origin. She was brutally hacked to death by her own in family in a West London suburb. You wont find the likes of Steph and Magnumblogs raise the issues without propaganda.

Lastly, you are right. Liberal Capitalism has made a bargain in that we take immigrants cheap labor, so we must be prepared to accept the social problems immigrants may bring too. Liberal Capitalism will argue, its not a perfect world, but overall there is net gain for the country as a whole. And liberal capitalism would say, besides, its the individuals responsibility to protect their property. The whole American gated-community thing. A change in the traditionally societarian approach that UK has had.

This is all very well, if social mobility was increasing for everyone. But research (probably fabian leftist research) does seem to indicate that social mobility for those at the bottom rung has not increased in the past 10 years of New Labour. This is dissapointing and makes many low income indigenous people more vulnerable to immigrant theft and violence.

Anyways I better halt, I'm beginning to blog in your blog Polly. lol

OK, But I unaware of criminality emanating from our Polish intake.

You may remember, Long ago I half jokingly proposed that if UK Muslims persisted and insisted their segrationist and misanthropic tendencies, then the government should issue compulsory purchase orders on their business and property, and deport them, bit by bit. Until they get the message this crap isnt on anymore. Invite new immigrants from sane and friendly countries, such as Poland, Latvia, Hungary, to buy the ex-Muz property through loans schemes.

Extreme? Nuts? Yes. It is a bit. But then so is keeping self consciously separate from those who dont share your culture. Its a form of apartheid. If they want apartheid that much, then let them have apartheid. Go to a country that will be more morally and culturally consonant with their world view. With a 200 hundred grand in their pocket they will be able to set up quite nicely in back in Islamabad, Peshawar, Lahore, Karachi etc. And i'm sure Pakistan would be pleased with the injection of foreign capital. If they love their "brothers" that much, then go help them! Why stay in a country were the women are whores and men drunk. (apparently).

"Fix your women" he said.. Let me fix you a one way air ticket back to 'paradise'.

Representative Democracies suffer unless there is consensus. We dont live in libertarian republic. We live under the next best system. UK Muslim are harming social cohesian. They are like grey squirrels that push out the red squirrels, forrest by forrest... With no inter-breeing between grey and red. Localised conquest. The location of a Mosque determining the cultural postcode lottery, determining white flight.

Poles have only been here a couple of years and already they opened a posh bar in Edinburgh. And dating locals Scots in Inverness. Good on them. Can you imagine UK Muslims opening a pub? Mingling with non Muslims?? Dating Brits??? Our black people have integrated well, there are problems with crime and educational attainment. Not all of that is their fault. And besides the scale of those problems are trivial compared with the apartheid practiced by Muslims. People who arrived in UK in the same era as the windrush peoples.

Houston we gotta problem.

PS. Heard tonight on news, that their buddies where plotting another attack on New York.

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