Today I had my purse nicked and end up most angry with my lover. Welcome to the downside of being a mistress.
I had my purse stolen and it was almost definitely by a man who looks 'of Turkish origin'. I'm unhappy to have had it stolen, but disturbed at the relish his foreign appearance seems to have engendered in witnesses, those I've told etc. I'm sure the bank manager is right that these things seem to be perpetrated by non-indigenous people and I'm also aware that there are foreign gangs of criminals. But also we are happy to have foreigners do our dirty work for knock-down wages, so can't be too surprised if some of them are opporunist petty thieves.
Cardiff is of course multi-racial and thief could be as 'Welsh' as I am. I'm unlikely to ever know.
What's really sad is that I was with my lover when it happened and he was lovely throughout, but had to go home to the wife, reminding me that while ultimately we are all alone, some of us feel more alone than others in certain circumstances.
I have friends who will be lovely and supportive and I know how concerned my lover is for me, but somehow that just doesn't feel enough, so here I am sending out my message in a metaphorical bottle to strangers and waving to my cyber-friends who are as real as me, but happen also to share in this strange cyber world of ours....














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